Care As A Family

If your loved one can communicate their wishes, then they should be involved in discussions around their care needs too. Talk to them about their preferences and priorities. Write down some notes of the things you’d like to discuss and then ask them for their views.

It’s essential to make sure people feel as involved as possible in the decision-making process around their care and that it’s something you’re working on as a team, rather than something that’s being done to them. Their wishes should act as a guiding light that can bring the rest of
the family together.

Make sure you’re giving yourself space to really listen to what your family members are saying and reflect on their ideas. It’s easy to start thinking about your own counterargument from the outset, rather than making an effort to understand someone else’s point of view.

Be sure to give your full attention. Ask follow-up questions and if you don’t agree with something, make a note to revisit it later once everyone has had a chance to have their say.

Conversations are always more successful when you’re open to learning something new.

Care is a complex and emotive topic. Even after hours of research you and your family members are unlikely to know everything. This means there’s a lot of room for different perspectives and ideas.

There’s no shame in questioning your assumptions, admitting you don’t
have an answer, or changing your mind.Always ask for clarification if something doesn’t sound right to you.

Misunderstandings can often stem from the way something has been worded, or from just assuming you know what someone means.

If you’re really struggling to see eye to eye, having an impartial expert involved may help bring some clarity. At Multilink Care our specialists are experienced in supporting different family members – whether providing practical advice or offering a listening ear when things get tough.

You can reach us for a no-obligation chat by booking a call at a time that suits you.